Awesome info guys, appreciate all of it. Looks like I'll be needing to place an order for a few more accessories, and I will definitely look up that bullet guy, if I could order 20-25 of a few different styles to try that would be excellent. Tin cup is sending me some minies of various sizes to get an idea of what bore diameter I am working with, so once I figure that out I can go from there with the experimentation, which is my favorite part of getting a new gun, finding out what it likes.
When the ramrod is dropped into the barrel it only sticks up a very small amount, a little over 1/4", is that too short? I would rather not spend the money on a new ramrod if it's unnecessary, but if it will give me trouble I will.
Cleaning: I like the Windex method posted by poorjack! I use water, an appropriate size jag on a range rod, cotton patches, and often linen tow, a waste fiber from flax processing. I keep it on hand as a tinder for making fires with flint and steel or for re-enactment/impression uses. After I'm through shooting, I stop up the cone and add some water, put my hand over the muzzle and slosh it around, dump it out, and repeat before I start to head home where I can be more fastidious.
Minie/Burton lube: I can tell you that the original 8 parts beeswax to 1 part tallow mixture used at the end of the war when it was being fought in the southeastern states is too thick in my experience. Even in Texas! I just made up some three parts tallow to one part beeswax for some cartridges. I also made up some Enfield-type cartridges and used six parts tallow to one part wax, but that basically just greases the paper around the skirt of the Pritchett-type bullet. Probably too runny for Minie/Burton grooves? Your lube may be just fine, but be advised that some of the older, more experienced, saltier type skirmishers I know swear off Crisco. The claim is that it results in more "cook offs" when a powder charge is introduced to the bore of a rapidly fired musket. Be careful of those, and keep your appendages away from the muzzle. Seen it happen. Of course, these same skirmishers I know probably think I'm a bit nutty for making paper cartridges rather than using just the tubes. The tubes are handy! Just add your charge, put the bullet in nose down, and then hand dip the skirt in some hot lube in a double-boiler type arrangement and it seals the whole round.
I might recommend getting a forming rod and pre-cut cartridge papers per Tin Cup's measurements from
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Great people, and very nice kit with good instructions, authentic flax twine, a chocking cord, etc. etc. You just supply your own powder and bullets. I've used the kits, forming rod, etc. to make round ball paper cartridges of different kinds from 1836 to 1861 styles for smooth bores, and .58 Minie/Burton cartridges for my rifle. I'm currently making up both Model 1855 and Model 1861 cartridges for a .69 caliber rifled and sighted Model 1842! One can always save some of the pre-cut papers and then make templates for cutting your own. I have done that, but I've also followed Tin Cup's instructions in order to approximate a template for the three-piece cartridge for the large .68 caliber Minie.
The consistency of the paper for the powder cylinder might be good to see and feel from Jefferson Arsenal's kit before you go scrounge up your own. I'd think that some types of butcher paper might be ideal. Having made Model 1855 and Model 1861 cartridges, allow me to observe that I greatly prefer making Model 1863 cartridges! These are two pieces of paper like the Model 1861s, and choked, but omit any flax thread at all, simply relying on twisting and back folding of the paper. Much simpler. Model 1861s are still fairly sturdy, and much, much easier to make than the three piece Model 1855. Good luck and good shooting to you! I hope you can find skirmishing events out there in Oregon! The team events in particular are a lot of fun, and quite challenging.