Your comments remind of how whenever someone gets engaged or pregnant the expectation is that everyone they tell should respond positively. Their decision should never be challenged. It's their life; why can't you let them do as they wish? Why can't you be happy for them? How dare anyone suggest that what they're doing is wrong! Personal happiness is all that matters!
The event is somewhat innocuously presented as a celebration of Lee and Jackson. It didn't take much to reveal what it's really about: a celebration of the Confederacy and Confederate ideals. Disingenuous presentation always warrants challenge.
Furthermore, veneration of Confederate ideals is inherently political. Those celebrating the Confederacy want their perception of Confederate political ideals implemented in present day.
The world will be a better place when there is nobody left who believes the Confederacy was on the right side of history. Until then, Confederate apologists cannot be allowed to operate unchallenged. Anything left unchallenged is tacitly condoned.
I'm sure there will be some there who want to see the South rise again with "whoopin' slaves and pickin' cotton" and others who just wanted a Southern Independence, not foreseeing the great changes that were already taking place in America at the time. Another member and I want to start a thread on that.
I think Lee and Jackson were the great men of their time and I for one want to go to this event and try to learn something and judge for myself and meet up with one of my dear friends
@Stone in the wall. We go civil warring all the time when I'm in the Maryland area. We both know what sides we are on, but we respect each other and hear each other. And I have other very, very dear Southern friends. I also see both sides and am very interested in the common man's approach to this at the time.
I'm not sure how the Union should have been held together and no one here in CWT land thinks (after all these years) I didn't want it held together, but no matter how you cut it, we were the invasive force and we sure didn't act like we were the good guests we should have been.
But I have learned, over many years in municipal and international work and as an election official in NH the art of being agreeable without being disagreeable and that seems something you might want to work on.
And getting back to the "whoopin' slaves" comment. My older sister and I were raised exactly alike in the North and she truly does believe that's the "little ole life for little ole her" so prejudice knows no geographic bounds and we weren't raised like that. Her daughter, who lives in the South is deeply distressed by it as I am, and my older sister isn't a bit interested in the CW, and is highly educated, so there you are…. It has nothing to do with learning about the Confederacy.