Every side, especially the losing side, needs a hero. Lee is remembered not necessarily for his military acumen but his
character and nobility. I enclose a letter from R. E. Lee to my Great-Grandfather. He wrote Gen Lee after the war, sharing the loss of his son (my great uncle) as a POW at Camp Chase, Ohio and the hard times of reconstruction. My youngest great-uncle was named Lee Driesbach in his honor. He later became a well know physician in New Orleans, LA. Please notice the theme and gentleness of Lee's answer:"
to J. D. Driesbach, October 3, 1867
Lee, Robert E. (Robert Edward), 1807-1870
URI:
http://hdl.handle.net/11021/22464
Date: 1867-10-03
Description:
Lee offers condolences to Mr. Driesbach on the loss of his "noble" son. He provides Driesbach's young son, Lee's namesake, with a photograph.
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Lexington VA: 3 Oct 1867
My dear Sir
I recd this mng your letter of the 28th ulto: & sympathize most sincerely in your misfortunes, & especially in the death for your noble son. When however we reflect upon the suffering of the living, & the peace & happiness of the righteous dead, we should be reconciled to the loss of friends & rejoice at their departure to a better world.
I thank you for the compliment paid me by giving my name to your little son, & hope that you will so educate him as that he will become a good, wise & useful man. I send him my photograph, the best I have, which I hope will serve to remind him sometimes of me-
With my kindest regards to all your family & best wishes for your welfare
I am very respy & truly
Your obtservt
R E Lee
Mr J. D. Driesnbach