@Eric Wittenberg I'm so sorry to hear of all you and your wife are having to deal with. I still remember fondly meeting you in 2016 at the CWT doodah in Gettysburg and I have several of you books which I thoroughly enjoyed. I just contributed to the GoFundMe account.
Turns out I had cataract surgery this morning so I'm struggling a bit to do computer work right now.
You seem to have a good attitude and that's a true positive. Just know you aren't alone.
My best to you and yours.