LOL, so creative.... I can hear the kids on the school ground now "I know you are, but what am I?" LOL...
No, the demand was, give us what we want or we will rebel. That is not maintaining the status quo. In Lincoln's eyes, and I would argue most people's eyes, that is threatening an illegal act if they don't get what they want. Again, they lost the election based on this very point. Elections in democracies are supposed to have consequences. But the seceding states had a hissy fit over losing the election and decided to go rogue. "What we can't get by legal means, we will get by illegal ones, unless you 'compromise'."
And by the way, you seem to be confused about who started the war. Every history of the war says the war started when the CSA opened fire on Fort Sumter. So its very clear Lincoln did not start a war. He merely responded to a war started by others.
And it seems you do not understand what they were demanding. It was not to protect slavery where it existed. That was not even an issue (although the fire eaters in the south liked to pretend it was, and lied to their constituents that Lincoln was an abolitionist). The issue was slavery in the territories. So it had nothing to do with the "status quo that had existed". You sound like one of those fire eaters trying to convince folks that Lincoln was coming for the slaves and was bent on abolitionism.
So tell us what compromise the South was offering? NOT to rebel? LOL.... You have an interesting idea of what compromise means. Lincoln went to war because (1) the CSA started a war and he finished it, and (2) he was enforcing the law. Its ridiculous to claim that you need to compromise with criminals and traitors. I think people are expected to follow the law and not start a war engage in war against your country.