I
was a member, but to be honest, for me at least, the tone of their advertising, articles, etc. were a huge turn off. I understand being proud of our Confederate heritage and history and wanting to preserve the memory of those who fought. However, most of the articles in their magazine, newsletters, emails, etc. came across as still fighting the war.
The tone of most seemed to be one of urgent deparation (we've got to do something
now or our Southern heratige will be destroyed!!), one of anger, or both. One particulr thing that was a HUGE turnoff to me was the advertisement for their motorcycle groups. "Iron Cavalry" I believe they call it, calling on members to "be a man among men."

. It comes across to me as posing and trying to blanket themselves with the valor of the Confederate cavalry. If you want to be a "man among men," joining a motorcycle group isn't going to make you one IMHO. Maybe I'm too sensative about it. Maybe they really do mean well. But the letters from the President, other officers, etc. all had that desperate, angry, and chip on their shoulder tone to me.
I think I may have been biased from the word go as, when I applied, they would not accept my g-g-grandfather as my proof of membership because they said he "signed loyalty to the Union" late in the war after being released as a POW (I had to use a g-g-uncle instead who "died for the cause" instead). Hey, if that's their rules fine, but again the war ended almost 160 years ago. There is only THE United States now. Loyalty to the Union? Yes, we should all have it.
Anyway, I answered the poll Am/Was a Member, but there's more behind the answer, and I hope others thinking of joining will consider my reasons and those of others who may have left the SCV before they join. It may be right for some, but the SCV wasn't right for me.