My wife and I just saw it yesterday (a reasonable $4.50 apiece for the morning matinee, but the shared popcorn and diet Coke at $12 about killed us. Hey, I'm a pensioner).
I think many of us come into the movie with our own expectations and grade the flick from that perspective. It's natural and understandable for us to do that and it explains why some may not like it as much as others.
Dugger, your review tickled me when, on the one hand, you pointed out that some folks may not care for a movie that doesn't have much stuff blowing up, then one paragraph later you wished for at least one more battle scene of Richmond/Petersburg, which, of course, is stuff blowing up. Hey, I understand what you are saying — it's just that the juxtaposition of thoughts made me smile.
I, for one, cannot remember being so engrossed by 2 1/2 hours of so much dialogue and so little action as I was with this flick. Amazing. That's so not me. Usually.
If there was a scene I wished was included, it would have been of Lincoln actually signing the 13th amendment — a presidential action not required of him, but one which he emphatically wanted to do.
Still, I thought it was a movie with powerful performances, script and production. I felt like I was a fly on the wall to the whole amendment process.