Growing up as a Southern Boy

W. Richardson

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"For every Southern boy fourteen years old, not once but whenever he wants it, there is the instant when it's still not yet two o'clock on that July afternoon in 1863, the brigades are in position behind the rail fence, the guns are laid and ready in the woods and the furled flags are already loosened to break out and Pickett himself with his long oiled ringlets and his hat in one hand probably and his sword in the other looking up the hill waiting for Longstreet to give the word and it's all in the balance, it hasn't happened yet, it hasn't even begun yet, it not only hasn't begun yet but there is still time for it not to begin against that position and those circumstances which made more men than Garnett and Kemper and Armistead and Wilcox look grave yet it's going to begin, we all know that, we have come too far with too much at stake and that moment doesn't need even a fourteen-year-old boy to think This time. Maybe this time with all this much to lose than all this much to gain: Pennsylvania, Maryland, the world, the golden dome of Washington itself to crown with desperate and unbelievable victory the desperate gamble, the cast made two years ago."

William Faulkner, novelist

Many, many years before I knew of this quote, I did in fact live it. As a young Southern Boy, that loved Civil War history, from the age of 8 to probably around 13, I relived Pickett's charge many times. I fought many a Civil War battles in the pastures and corn fields. I met the Blue bellies, although they were make believe, on the crest of the ridge, as Pickett urged us on. I have fought Pope's army at the 2nd battle of Bull Run, fought up the slopes of Malvern Hill against McClellan's Blue hoard , in the Hornet's Nest at Shiloh against some guy named Grant and his sidekick Sherman, met that Grant fellow again in the woods of the Wilderness....................Most of the times we Johnny Rebs sent them Blue Bellies to running as we carried the day, but there were times when that Blue hoard was just too great, even for the likes of Stone wall Jackson, Robert E. Lee, JEB Stuart, A.P. Hill, Pete Longstreet, D. H. Hill, and Wade Hampton............

So yes, my urge to honor my Confederate Heritage does run deep...............................But there also lies another flag I do so love.........The Stars and Stripes, the old red, white, and blue......................

At almost 60 now I still have my memories of so many years ago, when I was but a Southern Lad.........................Now as the days ahead are shorter than the days behind, I still close my eyes and I see Pickett's Charge as the reach they crest of the ridge, and the Battle Flags fall, I do know that America is a better America because of that lost day so many, many years ago.

What are you remembrances of your early childhood Civil War interactions?? Don't be shy for remembrances are what dreams are made of. They are what keeps old hearts young.

Respectfully,
William

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As a child I loved to play with toy soldiers. I would create massive battles right there on my bedroom floor. The other thing I liked to do was go to the Library and check out Civil War books. At that time I was not really interested in reading the books, but I loved to look at the pictures.
 
Growing up on the other side of the Mason-Dixon line, I often fought the Rebs in my backyard. I also fought epic battles with armies of little plastic toy civil war soldiers. I also conned my sister into playing "generals" in which I wrote out orders modeled on those in the OR. I was usually Meade and she was Reynolds (Gettysburg), or I was Sherman and she was Thomas (Atlanta).

I also remember spending hours studying the maps in the American Heritage book. I'm glad to say my 9 year old son does the same.
 
Thank you @Paul Yancey and @Andy Cardinal for your posts.

This is a thread I hope will take us all back to where it began, back to before we all butted heads over things we cannot change, back before innocence was lost............Our first step on the road to CWT.

I too loved the Civil War books for their pictures and maps !!!!!!

Respectfully,
William

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Growing up on the other side of the Mason-Dixon line, I often fought the Rebs in my backyard. I also fought epic battles with armies of little plastic toy civil war soldiers. I also conned my sister into playing "generals" in which I wrote out orders modeled on those in the OR. I was usually Meade and she was Reynolds (Gettysburg), or I was Sherman and she was Thomas (Atlanta).

I also remember spending hours studying the maps in the American Heritage book. I'm glad to say my 9 year old son does the same.


You know what is sad? I never thought of anyone wanting to play the Yankees. What I mean is I never thought, at that age anyways, of Northern Boys playing the Civil War as Yankees. At my young age I just never thought about it.................Did you think about Southern Boys playing the Civil War as Confederates?

Respectfully,
William

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As a young Southern Boy, that loved Civil War history, from the age of 8 to probably around 13

Our Childhoods it seems are identical and I'm a decade older. Quite sure many neighbors thought I was crazy, if not dangerous! As I got older, relatives began to inform me there were "home-grown Yankees" in my family tree. I recall thinking "that can't be!", we're from Tennessee! It's been quite a journey!
 
Our Childhoods it seems are identical and I'm a decade older. Quite sure many neighbors thought I was crazy, if not dangerous! As I got older, relatives began to inform me there were "home-grown Yankees" in my family tree. I recall thinking "that can't be!", we're from Tennessee! It's been quite a journey!


I am sure I was viewed as a crazy youngin.......lol....I once got in trouble for hacking down all the old dried up corn stalks in my uncle's field.....................Still not sure why or what the big deal was..............lol

I bet you and I could have won that mean old Civil War in just one afternoon of fighting................lol


Respectfully,
William

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I am sure I was viewed as a crazy youngin.......lol....I once got in trouble for hacking down all the old dried up corn stalks in my uncle's field.....................Still not sure why or what the big deal was..............lol

I bet you and I could have won that mean old Civil War in just one afternoon of fighting................lol


Respectfully,
William

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I'm convinced we did!
 
You know what is sad? I never thought of anyone wanting to play the Yankees. What I mean is I never thought, at that age anyways, of Northern Boys playing the Civil War as Yankees. At my young age I just never thought about it.................Did you think about Southern Boys playing the Civil War as Confederates?

Respectfully,
William

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I guess probably not. As far as I know I was the only one where I lived playing civil war in the yard, although there were a few of us who played world war 2. Sometimes I made my sister be a graycoat, but mainly that was so I could "shoot" her I suppose.

My son plays like that today. He constructed breastworks in my backyard so now I have a heck of a time mowing. He's a northern boy too, so every time he sees a horse he says to watch out for Rebel cavalry.
 
I guess probably not. As far as I know I was the only one where I lived playing civil war in the yard, although there were a few of us who played world war 2. Sometimes I made my sister be a graycoat, but mainly that was so I could "shoot" her I suppose.

My son plays like that today. He constructed breastworks in my backyard so now I have a heck of a time mowing. He's a northern boy too, so every time he sees a horse he says to watch out for Rebel cavalry.


Me and my cousins often played WW2 as well. We never could find anyone to be a Yankee for us. I never thought about my sis doing it, oh well too late now. :)

Enjoy your son's playing for they grow up way too fast...................:(

Tell him an old Johnny Reb said hello from way down in Dixie :)

Respectfully,
William


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Me and my cousins often played WW2 as well. We never could find anyone to be a Yankee for us. I never thought about my sis doing it, oh well too late now. :smile:

Enjoy your son's playing for they grow up way too fast...................:frown:

Tell him an old Johnny Reb said hello from way down in Dixie :smile:

Respectfully,
William


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Will do!
 
When I was 11, I made my first trip to Shiloh with my Scout Troop which started a life long love affair with Shiloh and the Civil War! I have studied and visited Civil War sites from Louisiana, Arkansas Mississippi to St. Albans, VT and places in between.
Gettysburg has always been in studies as 2 companies of the 11th MS are from Oxford and Lafayette county!
I went to school at the University of Chattanooga and spent countless hours on Lookout Mountain and Chickamagua and other sites in driving and hitchhiking distance
I have always honored those who join the military and defend their country, regardless of which side. Some of my ancestors are Confederate but they also served in the Revolutionary War, Spanish American War, WW I & II and in the Mid-East
Proud of my heritage and being an American!
Regards
David
 
When I was 11, I made my first trip to Shiloh with my Scout Troop which started a life long love affair with Shiloh and the Civil War! I have studied and visited Civil War sites from Louisiana, Arkansas Mississippi to St. Albans, VT and places in between.
Gettysburg has always been in studies as 2 companies of the 11th MS are from Oxford and Lafayette county!
I went to school at the University of Chattanooga and spent countless hours on Lookout Mountain and Chickamagua and other sites in driving and hitchhiking distance
I have always honored those who join the military and defend their country, regardless of which side. Some of my ancestors are Confederate but they also served in the Revolutionary War, Spanish American War, WW I & II and in the Mid-East
Proud of my heritage and being an American!
Regards
David


Thank you for sharing your remembrances with us. I was in the scouts as well but we never toured any Civil War sites. If you have not been to Gettysburg, when you do visit you will love it. It is over-whelming and pleas plan for at least a 3 days visit. I have been blessed enough to have visited it 5 times for about 25 days total. It seems that you are well traveled in your tours.

Respectfully,
William

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Fortunately for me my mother had moved up to the Baltimore area after I got out of high school so I had a good base of operation for Gettysburg, Sharpsburg, Harpers Ferry and Bull Run
Made longer forays to Fredericksburg and Richmond. Sadly I have never been to Appomattox
Regards
David
 
Fortunately for me my mother had moved up to the Baltimore area after I got out of high school so I had a good base of operation for Gettysburg, Sharpsburg, Harpers Ferry and Bull Run
Made longer forays to Fredericksburg and Richmond. Sadly I have never been to Appomattox
Regards
David

I have also not traveled to Appomattox, but plan to this fall. I want to check out the new American Civil War Museum they have there. James N. has informed us it is were all the GOOD STUFF is................Confederate. :)


Respectfully,
William

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Two countries
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Fortunately for me my mother had moved up to the Baltimore area after I got out of high school so I had a good base of operation for Gettysburg, Sharpsburg, Harpers Ferry and Bull Run
Made longer forays to Fredericksburg and Richmond. Sadly I have never been to Appomattox
Regards
David

I have also not traveled to Appomattox, but plan to this fall. I want to check out the new American Civil War Museum they have there. James N. has informed us it is were all the GOOD STUFF is................Confederate. :smile:


Respectfully,
William

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We're going as a group to Vicksburg in the fall and I can't wait. Never been, dying to see the place.

I'll be the first one to suggest we do a CWT meet up at Appomattox in 2020. It's only a year away and what fun it would be.
 
We're going as a group to Vicksburg in the fall and I can't wait. Never been, dying to see the place.

I'll be the first one to suggest we do a CWT meet up at Appomattox in 2020. It's only a year away and what fun it would be.

I hope you do enjoy your trip to Vicksburg. I have never been there myself and probably will not get it done before I kick the bucket..........Good chance I'll not get it done after I kick the bucket either.....lol

I am all for a 2020 CWT reunion at Appomattox !!!

Respectfully,
William

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I hope you do enjoy your trip to Vicksburg. I have never been there myself and probably will not get it done before I kick the bucket..........Good chance I'll not get it done after I kick the bucket either.....lol

I am all for a 2020 CWT reunion at Appomattox !!!

Respectfully,
William

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William, why not come to Vicksburg in October? You won't be kicking the bucket before then (without our permission). We can do Appomattox next.

I'll bump the planning thread and tag you into it.
 

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