Basically you are saying what General Wise Told Lee on the march to Appomattox:
Lee became solemn, and asked Gen. Wise for his opinion about the "situation". Gen. Wise exploded, "Situation?, There is no situation! Nothing remains Gen. Lee, but to put your poor men on your poor mules and send them home in time for spring ploughing. This army is hopelessly whipped and is fast becoming demoralized. These men have already endured more than I believed flesh and blood could stand, and I say to you, sir, emphatically, that to prolong the struggle is murder, and the blood of every man who is killed from this time forth is on your head, General Lee."
Lee let the word sink in, then replied, "Oh, General, do not talk so wildly. My burdens are heavy enough. What would the country think of me, if I did what you suggest?"
Wise wasted no time in replying " Country be damned! There is no country! There has been no country, General for over a year or more. You are the country to these men. They have fought for you. They have shivered through a long winter for you! Without pay or clothes, or care of any sort, their devotion to and faith in you have been the thing which has held this army together. If you demand the sacrifice, there are still thousands of us who will die for you. You know the game is desperate beyond redemption, and that, if you announce, no man or government or people will gainsay your decision. That is why I repeat that the blood of any man killed hereafter is upon your head."
In the fading darkness of night as the sun began to warm the eastern skies over Virginia, a young Confederate courier who had been sleeping for a short while in a thicket of brush, exhausted from days of riding between Richmond and the HQ of Robert E. Lee, was awaken by the sound of wagons, caissons pulled by mules and horses that appeared barely able to walk another foot. Men, waves of men, bare foot, some in rags, hunger stretching their gaunt faces. They silently watched him climb back onto his weary horse and ride against the tide humanity.
At the same time another Confederate was...