Thank you for reviving this thread -- it is a good one to clear up many of the misconceptions that keep circulating, regarding Lawrence. My understanding went from "two boys shot -- one large for his age and in what may have appeared to be a partial uniform" to "Shoot all the little boys on site/sight!!" Not being well-read on the topic, it is very easy to get derailed with the hyperbole and histrionics (as opposed to history)
Hello, Bee.
Here is Quantrill's exact order, as quoted by his Lieutenant, William H. Gregg:
"Quantrill's order was to kill, kill, and you will make no mistake. Lawrence is the hotbed and should be thoroughly cleansed and the only way to cleanse it is to kill."
That's a pretty grim order for sure, but it says nothing about the age of those to be killed.
With regard to the burning, Gregg had this to say:
"The killing finished, the men were ordered to burn the town. Quantrill said 'Give the Kansas people a taste of what the Missourian has suffered at the hands of the Kansas jayhawker." (Obviously introducing the revenge motive again.)
With regard to the criminal enterprise at Lawrence, Gregg had this to say:
"I repaired to the southern portion of the main town, where I found about forty shanties built, three side boards and the forth a hay stack and covered with hay, all of these shacks were filled with household effects, stolen from Missouri, much we recognized, many of these had feather beds, quilts, blankets, etc. stacked in there higher than I could reach, fine bedsteads, bureaus, sideboards, bookcases and pianos that cost thousands of dollars."
Of the mass killing, Gregg said:
"This wholesale killing was repugnant to many of the men and, also to many of the officers, but, forbearance had ceased to be a virtue. Our own loved ones had been murdered, robbed and insulted, there was a price upon the head of Quantrill and every one of his men. Anderson's sister had been murdered, Crawford's sisters had been murdered, and, any day, any of our sisters were liable to be murdered, and yet Mr. Horton (one of the civilians who Quantrill protected at Lawrence and who survived the raid) said 'if there was a woman or child harmed by Quantrill's men at Lawrence, I never heard of it'."
Gregg described the killing of Larkin Skaggs--the only Q. man killed at Lawrence. He was shot, dragged through the streets until naked and his body mutilated. Then he was hanged and his body further mutilated with knives, clubs and rocks. One can easily imagine the rage of the survivors.
Gregg goes on to quote a question posed to Mr. Horton:
"Did any of Quantrill's men do anything that mean (referring to Skaggs's mutilation) in Lawrence?"
Mr. Horton's answer:
"They did not."
We can see from all of this that everyone has an opinion about Lawrence, that there were multiple motives for the raid, that some myths have sprung up around the raid, beginning almost in the immediate aftermath, and that it'll be a contentious topic for generations to come.