My, we are a testy bunch lately.

Heh, everytime I see this picture, I add a mental caption, "Hey Johnny, Reb, you can let go of my hand now. Seriously, let go, it's starting to hurt. Ouch, PLEASE LET GO NOW!!!!!"

Been there, done that. While I'm no fan of the dead fish handshake, there are some guys out there that seem to think the handshake is a contest, and that if they don't break every bone in your hand in the process, they lose!
 
Been there, done that. While I'm no fan of the dead fish handshake, there are some guys out there that seem to think the handshake is a contest, and that if they don't break every bone in your hand in the process, they lose!

Daddy used to say look a man in the eye when you shake hands with him. Give a firm handshake but do not squeeze the other's hand hard.

Later I was told that to lightly squeeze one's hand when you hear their name or to repeat your or their name helps some folks remember theirs or yours better. I don't think that works for everyone but it has served me well.
 
Thank you for posting this, jay gale. Looks like fun. :wink:

I'm once again climbing up on my soapbox on what looks like a fun thread but I feel like I need to say this (sorry, guys!)- this forum's a wonderful place with so many wonderful people but I feel like sometimes or at least recently we're all a little too busy shouting at each other sometimes to listen- and that can be a scary atmosphere for new posters- which could explain why we haven't had too chiming in recently. If I may lecture people much older and wiser than me, I think empathy for each others point of view might solve a lot of the problems. We don't necessarily have to agree- after all, what are discussion boards for, right?- but we need to all remember that like it or not- we're in this together both as a nation and as a board. We can agree to disagree as friends, right?

I'm totally stepping out of place here and don't mean to presumptuous, but had to get that off my chest.

I admit that sometimes when I have a bad day, my comments are particularly...direct. I will do my best to recognize this and act accordingly. But if posters say really stupid stuff...
 
Daddy used to say look a man in the eye when you shake hands with him. Give a firm handshake but do not squeeze the other's hand hard.

Later I was told that to lightly squeeze one's hand when you hear their name or to repeat your or their name helps some folks remember theirs or yours better. I don't think that works for everyone but it has served me well.

Interesting. Never heard the one about squeezing the hand. But repeating the name definitely works. The only problem is, I always forget to do that! What I really need is somebody to squeeze my hand to remind me to repeat names. ;)
 
If I may lecture people much older and wiser than me
Older anyway...

We can agree to disagree as friends, right?
I didn't agree to that.

I'm totally stepping out of place here and don't mean to presumptuous, but had to get that off my chest.
Never apologize- it's a sign of weakness
 
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We should take a lesson from the men who actually did the fighting.
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Afraid I don't see a lot of camaraderie in that picture! More like suspicion.
I'll stick by my avatar:
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Aww...I'm just teasing :smile:
It's actually a line from Peabody and Sherman.
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It is a sign of how mature my sense of humor is that the only time I laughed at that movie was when Mr. Peabody referred to Sherman and himself as confederates in arms or something like that. "Hah, hah- Sherman and Confederates were mentioned in the same sentence!" :tongue:
 
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