Hello from Canada. I am fascinated by your story and your dream! My sister and I visit Gettysburg whenever we can, and the last time we were there, she said to me out of the blue, 'We were here. I KNOW we were here!" I have had the same feeling, but not as strongly as you. Hope you can track down your major.
PS. This forum can take a bit of getting used to. Mostly we are great people with a huge amount of knowledge about the ACW. Give us a challenge like this, finding your major, and we get right into it. Brains engage and questions fly and, unfortunately one down-side with the internet is that it is hard to judge attitude with no vocal clues. We don't bite very often, and we love to help, so don't worry that we are not taking you seriously. If we thought that you weren't serious, most of us wouldn't have bothered to reply.
Hope your back is feeling better soon. Glad to have you with us!