I don't understand why the NPR narrator would think that glory eluded him in life.
Lee was famous in the prewar army and was a very highly regarded engineer. If there had been no civil war he would have still been a great man to those who knew him. That should be good enough as it is.
you would think. here is that whole excerpt:
Narrator: Robert E. Lee had little inclination to work through what his life and his war had
meant... and even less time. In October of 1870, just five and a half years after his surrender,
Lee suffered a massive stroke and died a few days later, at home in Virginia, surrounded by his
family.
In death, as in life, Robert E. Lee divided the nation. The former slave Frederick Douglass spoke
for those who were offended by the "nauseating flatteries of Robert E. Lee"... "It would seem
that the soldier who kills the most men in battle, even in a bad cause, is the greatest Christian,
and entitled to the highest place in heaven."
Southern partisans deified their now- fallen commander, placing his memory at the head of a
grand and noble Lost Cause. The glory that eluded Lee in life attached itself to him in death,
turning him, literally, into a bronzed god, a marble man.
as to what glory, maybe this:
Narrator: Cadet Lee was mindful of his personal talents, and of his place in the world. He was
born into the Virginia aristocracy: his extended clan included a president, a chief justice of the
United States, signers of the Declaration of Independence.
And Lee's own father had been one of the nation's most celebrated Revolutionary War heroes.
As a daring young cavalry commander, Light Horse Harry Lee had won the esteem of General
George Washington and a medal of honor from the Continental Congress.
Even at 18, Robert E. Lee carried himself as if the command of men was his destiny... as well as
his duty.
Peter S. Carmichael, Historian: I'm personally struck by how many of his peers were just
impressed by his physical presence alone. When he walked into a room I think that there was a
sense of dignity and seriousness that immediately got the attention of those around him.
i didn't want to post the whole transcript but the link will take you right there. i think someone here was talking about his relationship with his dad.