Just going to say, this thread is a perfect example of revisionist history.
Lee rejected the notion of continuing the war as a guerrilla or fleeing to personal safety but instead chose to face the music and formally surrender himself and his army. Not knowing whether he would be hung for treason or jailed, he returned to a quiet and productive civilian life as much as his health would allow, and set an example of reconciliation with his former enemies that is well documented and was universally lauded for well over 100 years.
Now, in the last few years, because he didn't take the public stage and wipe out 300 years of race prejudice (existing both north and south), many want the record to read that Lee was bitter, or sullen, sulking, and vindictive in defeat, when he was none of those, at least not where it mattered; in public.
I think the attempt to put horns on every Confederate now somehow puts angel wings and halos on every member of the Union army and helps dumb down the war to "good vs evil" in many minds.