Brother against brother

rhettbutler1865

Colonel, CSA Cavalry
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The friendship and deep feeling between Hancock and Armistead intrigues me. I know there were more than a few West Pointers who hated to have to fight each other. But besides (or including) officers, will anyone share a bit on their particular "favorite"--sad as it may be...
 
Aside from West Point, I have uncovered about 170 other colleges whose alumni fought in the war, and a number of these experienced divided loyalties, especially in the border states, and also at nationally recognized schools like Harvard, Yale and Princeton (College of New Jersey). A subset of this population were the college fraternities. At Chancellorsville, a Zeta Psi initiate named Henry R. Schwerin of the 119th New York was badly wounded. He probably wore a fraternity pin, since one or more unidentified Confederate members of his fraternity found and cared for him. When Schwerin died, they arranged to send his sword, watch, and other personal effects to his family.
 
Diverging a bit (that ok OP?)- there was Stonewall and his sister Laura. She was a staunch Unionist and every bit as strong willed as her brother. He, of course, would go on to be a legendary Confederate officer. They ceased communicating after he chose to join the Confederate army, and she even said after his death, that while she was sad that he was dead, it was probably better for the country. What makes it really sad is that the two were extraordinarily close before the war; you can read his letters to her (none of hers survive) and see the love that he pours into them. They were really all they had- their mom had died and they had been farmed out to relatives. She even got along well with his wife! There were also cousins of Lee's that chose to remain in the Union. So, not only were friendships torn apart but also families.
 
Yes, I remember that...She was of a sturdier build than her husband...I know people were shorter then, but Grant was only 5'1" ! Al Pacino is even a bit taller, and my Confederate frock coat is just past my knees (and I'm not very tall!)
 
Diverging a bit- there was Stonewall and his sister Laura. She was a staunch Unionist and every bit as strong willed as her brother. He, of course, would go on to be a legendary Confederate officer. They ceased communicating after he chose to join the Confederate army, and she even said after his death, that while she was sad that he was dead, it was probably better for the country. What makes it really sad is that the two were extraordinarily close before the war; you can read his letters to her (none of hers survive) and see the love that he pours into them. They were really all they had- their mom had died and they had been farmed out to relatives. She even got along well with his wife! There were also cousins of Lee's that chose to remain in the Union. So, not only were friendships torn apart but also families.
That's not diverging at all! Excellent...I didn't know that!
 
Not to leave out the women (or families), because they had more than their share of strife and challenges in the war... I know this may be asking too much, but does anyone have a story about two brothers actually "facing" each other (not just brigades, regiments, units, etc.) but seeing each other?
 
George and Thomas Crittenden (sons of John Crittenden of Crittenden Compromise fame) fought on opposite sides, and both were active in the 1862 Perryville campaign. I don't know if they saw one another though.

http://www.murfreesboropost.com/brother-vs-brother-vs-cousin-cms-4450

I'd imagine it'd be fairly hard for people to actually recognize one another on a battlefield between smoke and dust, but I'd look at the border state regiments first.

Actually, I think there were Missouri units on both sides of the Vicksburg Siege, and there the armies did have the chance to talk/ socialize after the surrender.so that might be a good place to look.
 
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Jeb Stuart's father-in-law was gunning for him. Phillipe St George Cook. Jeb had named his son after him, but when grampa didn't go with Virginia, he renamed the kid! Once Jeb wrote his wife that he'd just almost caught her father. Don't know what she thought of that... Cook was eventually removed to another theater when it was thought he wasn't keen enough to go after his son-in-law.
 
On a related note, I know many people here have soldiers on both sides in their ancestry, but I wonder how many have ancestors who faced each other directly on the field?

The closest I can get is cousins - my Landrum cousins rode with Newt Knight of Jones county Mississippi, who led a guerrilla band of Union supporters, while the Georgia Landrums I'm descended from fought for the CSA.
 
Thank you for the correction...I was going by an account I read from a fellow officer of Longstreet's. Again, I will look up things before I make a statement.
 
According to records and family posters here - :thumbsup: - Forrest was after his half-brother, Matt Luxton. I don't know the whole story but it seems he turned outlaw, or was thought to have done so. After the war this brother got very sick and his mother came to care for him, stepped on a rusty nail and died. Forrest didn't make it down to Texas, possibly because there were still hard feelings between them. (He might not have known in time, too.) These things went on after the war as well - didn't disappear just because a piece of paper was signed somewhere in Virginia!
 
From the Battle of Antietam / Sharpsburg Forum
http://civilwartalk.com/threads/brothers-at-war.103924/#post-967518

In April, 1861, John G. B. Adams and his brother, Isaac enlisted in Company A, 19th Massachusetts Infantry. Isaac, as described below, was fatally wounded at Antietam. John, who was promoted to 2nd Lieutenant before the battle, survived the war and would publish his memoirs in a book titled Reminiscences of the Nineteenth Massachusetts Regiment from which the following is quoted. Another member of Company A was Daniel W. Spofford, whose brother, Phineas had also enlisted. Phineas, however, had moved south before the war and was an officer in the 8th South Carolina. They all came together in the West Woods as Sedgwick's Division of the II Corps attacked Jackson's command in the West Woods.

"I had not seen my brother since we had advanced in line. He was left general guide of the regiment, and his place was on the left. As soon as we halted I went to the company, but he was not there. The following day I searched the hospitals, but could not find him, and on the morning of the 19th, the rebels having left our front, I went where their lines had been and found him, with Jacob Hazen of Company C and George Carleton of Company B, near an old haystack. He had been shot in the right side of the neck, the ball passing out of the left shoulder; it had cut the spinal nerve, and he could not move hand or foot. I saw at once that he could not live and had him placed in an ambulance and carried to our field hospital. It was the saddest duty of my life. We had left home together, and had often talked of a happy reunion around the old fireside when the war should end. Now I must write to my old mother that one of the three who had bade her good-by in '61 would never return.
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While my brother lay wounded on the field inside the rebel lines an officer of the 8th South Carolina came along, and seeing 19 on his cap asked to what regiment he belonged. Being informed that it was the 19th Massachusetts, he said he had a brother in that regiment named Daniel W. Spofford. My brother told him that his brother was wounded in the battle, and might be on the field. He searched for him but did not find him, as he [Daniel] was able to go to the rear before we changed front. Returning, he had my brother carried to the haystack where I found him, and rendered all the assistance possible. The name of the South Carolina officer was Phineas Spofford. Both brothers survived the war. The Union soldier resides in Georgetown, Mass., the rebel in South Carolina, but he often visits his native State."
 
Battle of Front Royal: Capt. William Goldsborough of the Confederate 1st Maryland Infantry captured his brother Charles Goldsborough of the Union 1st Maryland Infantry.

You also have the story of James and Alexander Campbell fighiting for CSA and USA, respectively.

Also brothers: CSA Brigadier General James B Terrill and USA Brig. General William R. Terrill (Both KIA during the war, in different battles, Totopotomoy & Perryville)

And the Prentisses from Maryland who fought against each other at Petersburg. (and a whole bunch of other Marylanders I suspect)

And then you have families like the Vanderfords with multiple members on both sides

And not to forget Wesley Culp fighting for the Confederates at his hometown Gettysburg, and ironically dying at the Hill named after his family and owned by his uncle.

And lots of other similar stories
 

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