William, I'm not singling you out- but I want to address something I see a lot nowadays, and that's the dismissal of others' opinions as "PC", or "I'm Offended"- it's not much different than saying "Get over it" or "Grow thicker skin", and it doesn't actually address the problem or solve anything- and it certainly doesn't draw people on opposite sides together.
Thing is, although there are times when Political Correctness runs amok, the phrase is often used to denigrate a valid opinion: it may have been okay to refer to people by various slang terms- oftentimes slurs- but the fact it's no longer okay isn't because it's "PC", it's because it's the right thing to do. Same thing with "Being Offended"...when I say something that you find objectionable, you are perfectly within your right to tell me that. If I respect you (or I work for you), then I'll change my language; if not, I'll ignore you- but I'll be doing so deliberately this time, and any repercussions are on me. Free speech works both ways- we each get to express our opinion, including how that opinion makes us feel.
I bring this up because these two phrases crop up with alarming regularity in discourse nowadays, usually with people who want things to be "just as they were." Problem is, things aren't, and they won't be again, and we all need to accept that fact. I bring this up here because it's part of that "perception management" I keep harping on about- if the SCV and/or other pro-CSA groups hope to sway popular opinion, they need to control the message being delivered about all things Confederate; denigrating those with differing opinions won't do it.
Again, not targeted against any one person- just a pause for thought. What message are we sending when we communicate?