Pete, I've taken the liberty of chopping up your post and reordering it so that I can reply to it more easily. I hope you don't mind. As for the above section, I agree with you 100%. I believe the vast majority of people on this forum also agree with you. Yes, there are a few here who are prone to hate on everything Confederate, and they can be quite vocal about it sometimes, but we need to keep them within the context of the overall forum body.
I will also note that some people here seem to believe that stating that the war was caused by slavery is to hate Confederates. But that is not the case. The evidence is overwhelming that the war was caused by slavery, but both North and South were responsible for slavery. And that leads me to my second point...
There were indeed "bad guys" from the North, but you're looking for them in the wrong places. There is a common bias (and I used to hold it myself) that the "bad guys" from the South in 1860 must have been equally balanced by "bad guys" from the North in 1860. There seems to be a poetic justice to it. But there's absolutely no universal law of human nature that says this has to be the case. And to come into the study of a historical event with the expectation of finding such a balance is a bias, plain and simple. And like all biases it can lead to skewed results.
If we don't allow our biases to prevent us from seeing that the overwhelming evidence shows that the war was caused by slavery, then the real question, for those who are intent on fixing blame, is who was responsible for
slavery in the United States? And there the answer is unequivocally both Northerners and Southerners. This is nothing new. Harriet Beecher Stowe said it in
Uncle Tom's Cabin way back in 1852:
Do you say that the people of the free states have nothing to do with it, and can do nothing? Would to God this were true! But it is not true. The people of the free states have defended, encouraged, and participated; and are more guilty for it, before God, than the South, in that they have not the apology of education or custom.
If the mothers of the free states had all felt as they should, in times past, the sons of the free states would not have been the holders, and, proverbially, the hardest masters of slaves; the sons of the free states would not have connived at the extension of slavery, in our national body; the sons of the free states would not, as they do, trade the souls and bodies of men as an equivalent to money, in their mercantile dealings. There are multitudes of slaves temporarily owned, and sold again, by merchants in northern cities; and shall the whole guilt or obloquy of slavery fall only on the South?
Northern men, northern mothers, northern Christians, have something more to do than denounce their brethren at the South; they have to look to the evil among themselves.
- Harriet Beecher Stowe, Uncle Tom's Cabin
Source:
http://stowe.thefreelibrary.com/Uncle-Toms-Cabin/2-28
Abraham Lincoln said it in a speech in Peoria way back in 1854:
Before proceeding, let me say I think I have no prejudice against the Southern people. They are just what we would be in their situation. If slavery did not now exist amongst them, they would not introduce it. If it did now exist amongst us, we should not instantly give it up. This I believe of the masses north and south. Doubtless there are individuals, on both sides, who would not hold slaves under any circumstances; and others who would gladly introduce slavery anew, if it were out of existence. We know that some southern men do free their slaves, go north, and become tip-top abolitionists; while some northern ones go south, and become most cruel slave-masters.
When southern people tell us they are no more responsible for the origin of slavery, than we; I acknowledge the fact. When it is said that the institution exists; and that it is very difficult to get rid of it, in any satisfactory way, I can understand and appreciate the saying. I surely will not blame them for not doing what I should not know how to do myself.
- Abraham Lincoln, October 16, 1854
Source:
http://www.mrlincolnandfreedom.org/inside.asp?ID=11&subjectID=2
And even after 4 years of bloody war with the South, he continued to believe it:
If we shall suppose that American slavery is one of those offenses which, in the providence of God, must needs come, but which, having continued through His appointed time, He now wills to remove, and that He gives to both North and South this terrible war as the woe due to those by whom the offense came, shall we discern therein any departure from those divine attributes which the believers in a living God always ascribe to Him?
- Abraham Lincoln, second inaugural address, March 4, 1865
Source:
http://avalon.law.yale.edu/19th_century/lincoln2.asp
Yes, Northerners share in the blame for slavery. There were many who profited from it and encouraged it. There were others who disliked it but were too timid to do anything about it. There were others who were fully willing to turn a blind eye to it. And there were still others who were willing to swallow the hypocrisy of believing that slavery was necessary to preserve a Union dedicated to the principle that "all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness."
The problem, for those who want to play the blame game or for those who insist that every Yancey must have a matching ??? on the other side, is that we don't know the names of the vast majority of these people, and that even when we do know them they may not seem to us, in the twenty-first century, to be "equally bad" as the Yanceys, Wigfalls, etc. But I'll give you a few high profile names who fit the bill:
James Buchanan
Franklin Pierce
Millard Fillmore
Daniel Webster
Stephen Douglas
Lewis Cass
And that's just scratching the surface. Nor does it take into account Northern *******s who bubbled up to the surface during and after the war, like Phil Sheridan.
And I'll also note that there were Southerners who made great sacrifices to fight slavery, and who spearheaded the national abolitionist movement, some of whom I've been highlighting in my
Southern Abolitionists series (which I hope to continue soon).
Hope this helps!