Not to get too fussed, and I mean this in the most respectful way, but I am told that those in the military prefer to call a person who is awarded a Medal of Honor, a "recipient" rather than a "winner". As it was explained to me, those who have been so honored do not consider that they are in a contest with their comrades. In fact, I have heard many in interviews say that they are accepting it only on behalf of others, whom they consider equally if not more deserving. It may be just semantics, but when explained in this way, it makes sense, at least to me.