Oh, Nellie!

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From Gregory Coco

One could make the argument that this story could be included in either a Confederate or Union book of humor, and it probably does belong better in the latter. But since the anecdote also concerns a Southerner, General Ambrose P. Hill, it can fit in here.

It was common knowledge to many, both before and during the war, that in his youth, Ambrose Hill had fallen in love with Mary Ellen Marcy, daughter o Randolph B. Marcy, who became a Union general in late 1861. Unfortunately, another good man, George B. McClellan, was also her suitor. Both Hill and McClellan had been cadets together at West Point, and each served in the Mexican War. Ultimately, "Nellie," as Mary Ellen was called, married McClellan in 1860.

When war came to the country in April 1861, both men went their separate ways, one to the North, the other South. But the rumor continued that Hill had never gotten over the loss of Mary Ellen to George B. And this belief was kept alive by a goodly number of of Rebs and Yanks. Then it so happened that some Federal soldiers began to notice that in McClellan's campaigns around Richmond, and even at Sharpsburg, General Hill's Confederate troops were often in the forefront of battle. And when in this particular position, Hill's "Light Division" tended to attack either their front, flank, or rear, and especially early in the morning. Obviously, after a while, the Yankees under "Little Mac" grew tired of that sort of treatment. They also began to attribute their problems with Hill to his spite and vengeance toward McClellan for winning "Miss Nellie."

"Early one gloomy morning," as one scenario was said to unfold, "before the sun had appeared, there were shots of artillery and rattle of musketry which told of a spirited attack. Hill was at it again. The long roll was beaten, there was commotion and confusion and a rush to arms, in the midst of which one hardened old Union veteran unrolled himself from his blanket and in an inimitable tone of weariness and disgust cried out, "My God, Nelly, why didn't our marry him!"

@lelliott19 - this is for your boy!
 
It seems that Ellen Mary Marcy's parents both had a decided preference for George McClellan over A.P. Hill. Apparently, Ellen accepted an engagement ring from Hill without her parent's prior knowledge. Upon learning of Hill's proposal of marriage to Ellen, her father wrote her the following letter from his post in Laredo, Texas. The letter appears in James Robertson's book A.P. Hill - The Story Of a Confederate Warrior.
"Did my affection for you merit such a breach of confidence?... I forgive you, but I should expect that you at once abandon all communications with Mr. Hill. If you do not comply with my wish in this respect, I cannot tell you what my feelings towards you would become. I fear that my ardent affection would turn to hate. Do nothing my dear child, without choosing between me and him."

Ellen's Mother soon took her own actions to break up the engagement. Either through gossip or a check of army records, the Mother learned that Hill had contracted venereal disease while at West Point. This information was soon "leaked" to family members. In July, 1856 Ellen informed her Father that her relationship with Hill was over, and the engagement ring was returned to Hill.

Hill would go on to marry Kitty Morgan McClung in July, 1859. McClellan would marry Ellen Marcy in New York City in May, 1860. Hill served as a groomsman at the wedding.
 
Great Story. Thanks
 

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