Father - Son war service

Tom Elmore

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Father's Day is a good time to reflect on father/son connections in the war.

One category uncovered is the prominent member of a community who formed a company at the outset of the war in which his son also served. An example is Albert Gallatin Brown, a former governor and senator from Mississippi, who became captain of the "Brown Rebels" - Company H, 18th Mississippi. In 1862 he was elected to the Confederate senate from Mississippi. His son, Robert Young Brown, succeeded him as captain of the company and was wounded and captured at Gettysburg.

Another category is the father who becomes a general officer and then assigns his son to his staff. For example, Union General George Gordon Meade and his son Captain George Gordon Meade, Jr. It was the younger Meade, serving as an aide, who was dispatched by his father to order General Dan Sickles to recall his Third Corps from their unauthorized advance to the Emmitsburg Road on the second day at Gettysburg, which Sickles found inexpedient. Likewise, Confederate brigade commander Henry L. Benning employed his son Seaborn Jones Benning as his Assistant Adjutant General. Seaborn was named after Henry's father-in-law, Seaborn Jones Jr., whose own son, John Abraham Jones, was colonel of the 20th Georgia in the same brigade.

Sometimes the son was too young and simply accompanied his father in an unofficial capacity. Major Wells J. Hawks, Commissary of the Army of Northern Virginia's Second Corps, took along his son, A. W. S. Wells. So did George S. Greene, whose Federal brigade held Culp's Hill at Gettysburg, and who brought along his 12 year old son, Francis Vinton Greene, who happened to be a very astute observer as is evident from his very detailed diary.

Then there were simple soldiers, like Charles F. Askew, a private in Company E, 53rd North Carolina, and his son John F. Askew, a private in Company C of the same regiment. Both were captured at Gettysburg.

Some especially tragic scenes unfolded between father and son. A member of this very board can attest to one such instance involving Captain William J. Miller, also of the 53rd North Carolina, who was killed on the afternoon of the first day at Gettysburg. His son, 1st Lieutenant Thomas C. Miller, was wounded in the hip and captured in the same battle.

Not far away, on the same day, Colonel Hugh Reid Miller of the 42nd Mississippi fell mortally wounded, while his son George Miller, the Sergeant Major of the regiment, was less seriously wounded. Another son, Edwin Miller, was Ordnance Sergeant in the regiment and elected to remain behind on the retreat to tend to his brother.

There are many more such stories, but I will end with an account by Lt. James I. Metts of the 3rd North Carolina. As darkness descended on Culp's Hill on the second day at Gettysburg, a young soldier came up to Metts and said, "Lieutenant, my father is killed." Metts could only reply, "Well, we cannot help it." The young man turned around and was soon back on the firing line, where he remained until exhausted. The time to mourn would come only after the battle was over.

[sources: Biographical and Historical Memoirs of Mississippi, pp. 433-434; http://docsouth.unc.edu/fpn/johnstond/johnston.html; http://archives.columbusstate.edu/findingaids/mc6.php; Confederate Veteran, vol. 19, p. 386; Diary of Francis Vinton Greene; The Tennessee Civil War Veterans Questionnaire; http://civilwartalk.com/threads/the-old-confederate-veteran.114630/; Lt. James I. Metts, Confederate Military History, Extended Addition, vol. 5, NC]
 
Good post. As a Father myself I can only think of how different those times were. I'd give my own life just to keep my son from ever having to experience the darkness of combat, in a second. I don't see how those men did that but then again they may have thought that was the best way to keep their children safe. Who knows but its something I'd never wish on any child or father for that matter.
 
James E B Hall Parole.jpg

James Edward Beaumont Hall (1847-83), age 17, enlisted in the First Florida Reserves at Ocala on May 28, 1864. His father, Joel Thomas Hall (1811-89), age 52, enlisted in the same unit on the same day. Joel was eventually placed on indefinite furlough and sent home as being over age 50, but James remained with the unit until it surrendered at Tallahassee on May 16, 1865.
 
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Found this a bit ago.

George Darby began his military career as a wagoner, then as 5th Sergeant of Company C, 22nd Kentucky. His son, Hugh, joined him. The younger Darby was captured and held as a POW until his parole and both were discharged at the end of their enlistment.

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There was also Willie Hardee, 16-year-old son of Gen. William J. Hardee, who had ran away from home in Marietta, Georgia to join the 8th Texas Cavalry "Terry's Texas Rangers" in 1864. He was later turned over to his father and made a lieutenant on his staff, serving throughout the Atlanta Campaign and into the Carolinas Campaign. On the march to Bentonville, Willie was finally granted permission from his father to join the 8th Texas Cavalry, sworn into Company D of the regiment. Unfortunately, he was mortally wounded in a mounted cavalry charge on the third day of the battle of Bentonville, dying on March 23, 1865.

http://www.civilwar.org/battlefield...ille-history-articles/bentonvillebradley.html

https://books.google.com/books?id=aHu3f390BVUC&pg=PA204&dq=willie+hardee+bentonville&hl=en&sa=X&ei=2TeGVeWhFoWWyASC0oCgBA&ved=0CCYQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q=willie hardee bentonville&f=false
 
On September 20th, 1863, several fathers lost a son. Lt. Col. Henry Davis was second in command of the 82nd Indiana, and caught up in the fight in Poe Field. His son, Henry P. Davis, was killed in that action.

"Lieutenant Colonel Davis and his two companies of Indianans simply could not stop Sugg's entire line of battle. "For a short time [we] checked the advance of the enemy," Davis later recalled, "but they soon discovered that it was only a skirmish line in their front and commenced advancing. . . . We commenced calling back from tree to tree until we reached an open field in our rear." Colonel Davis had yet to know it, but he suffered a great personal tragedy during this fight: While he was busy on the brigade right, his son, Pvt. Henry P. 'Peeler' Davis, fell wounded during Hunter's counter-charge, taking what appeared to be a damaging but not overly dangerous wound to the foot. Unable to walk and left on the field for more than twenty-four hours, however, the wound festered. Henry died a week or so after the battle. Colonel Davis, heartsick and devastated, resigned on October 1st, 1863. "The death of our brother broke the spirit of our father, and he wanted to get back home to his family," explained Davis' second son, William.

Similarly, In Kelly Field:

"Col. William Berry, witnessing Van Derveer's charge, deciding to help out. He retained the 1st Ohio to make sure his own front line (still engaging Polk) had support, but sent his 5th Kentucky slicing into the Rebels' left flank. Captain John M. Huston, now commanding the 5th, complied with a will, driving the Confederates a distance Huston estimated at "a mile and a half." The 5th also took "200 prisoners" though not without great personal cost to the captain: "My oldest son, Lieutenant Huston, was killed. He died like a soldier, with sword in hand, in the midst of a victorious charge upon a fleeing enemy."
 
John Adolphus Bernard Dahlgren (November 13, 1809 – July 12, 1870) was a United States Navy officer who initiated major advances in gunnery, as founder of the U.S. Navy's Ordnance Department.

Ulric Dahlgren (April 3, 1842 – March 2, 1864) served as a Union Armycolonel. He was in command of an unsuccessful 1864 raid on the Confederate capital of Richmond, Virginia, and was killed in the raid. The major consequence of the failed raid was the Dahlgren Affair after incriminating documents were discovered on Dahlgren's corpse.
 
Cant imagine having my son witness the horrors of war at a young age. But then again times were different and young kids were mustered into the armies. And I just have 2 daughters...lol
 
One of the saddest incidents involving a Father & Son was Union Irish Brigade Serg. Driscoll, during the Battle of Malvern Hill, taking a long shot at a Confederate Lieutenant of the 2nd Louisiana Regt., and when he went up to check 0n him, turned him over onto his back, discovered that he was his Son; the Son then opened his eyes and murmured 'Father' and then closed them forever. The Father then took off his Union Jacket and laid it over his body and then turned towards the Confederate lines charging furiously until he was also shot down & killed.
 
There was also Willie Hardee, 16-year-old son of Gen. William J. Hardee, who had ran away from home in Marietta, Georgia to join the 8th Texas Cavalry "Terry's Texas Rangers" in 1864. He was later turned over to his father and made a lieutenant on his staff, serving throughout the Atlanta Campaign and into the Carolinas Campaign. On the march to Bentonville, Willie was finally granted permission from his father to join the 8th Texas Cavalry, sworn into Company D of the regiment. Unfortunately, he was mortally wounded in a mounted cavalry charge on the third day of the battle of Bentonville, dying on March 23, 1865.

http://www.civilwar.org/battlefield...ille-history-articles/bentonvillebradley.html

https://books.google.com/books?id=aHu3f390BVUC&pg=PA204&dq=willie+hardee+bentonville&hl=en&sa=X&ei=2TeGVeWhFoWWyASC0oCgBA&ved=0CCYQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q=willie hardee bentonville&f=false

This is such a moving story. Don't you know Gen. Hardee had a hard time living with that decision he made in North Carolina?
 
In the bits of my family tree that I've found, there are two father-son stories.

In Cherokee County in northern Alabama, Trustum Frazier and his son William Neely trekked to Rome, Georgia to volunteer for service. They were placed together in a cavalry company in Smith's Legion. Trustum, who was well into his fifties, was sent home several months later for not being physically able of performing his duties. William Neely stayed, his company eventually used to create the Sixth Georgia Cavalry, hence, my avatar. William remained in service to the end, through the East Tennessee, Chickamauga, and Atlanta and then the hopeless resistance to Sherman's marches through Georgia and the Carolinas. I directly descent from both of them.

Meanwhile, over in Independence County, Arkansas, north of Batesville right where the hills rise up from the Delta, Willis Brewer watched four of his sons go into service. The eldest volunteered and was with Cleburne at Shiloh. The others were conscripted into the army Gen. Hindman created from scratch and marched off to fight later at Mansfield and Jenkin's Ferry. Willis was left at home with his daughters. He was one of the earliest Anglo settlers in the region. At some point after Little Rock, his sons would appear at home on self-appointed leave. On one occasion, a Federal cavalry brigade stayed put in their county for about six months, presumably to counter guerrillas. Discovered at home, the boys must have disavowed any Confederate service, as they showed up on the roster roles of a newly formed Arkansas union regiment. When the Federals moved out a few months later, they slipped away south, back to their CSA unit. They survived the war, but their father was not so lucky. He was murdered by bushwhackers late in 1864. His daughter, so I was told by my grandfather, on at least one occasion hid a wounded soldier in the wagon and slipped him past Federal pickets. I am directly descended from both the father and the daughter and am not remotely as brave as either. But it is comforting to know that somewhere in all those chromosomes, they're with me.

My grandfather remembered vividly visits from the elder Brewer boy. My grandad said he had a long white beard -- I've since found a photo that confirms his memory -- and that he loved to sit on the front porch and laugh at the various troubles my grandfather would get himself into.
 
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