UPDATE: The Meares hat (and other items) have apparently been turned over to the Cape Fear Museum.
This from theior blog in 2014:
Getting Gaston's Hat and Sword
Two of the earliest additions to the U.D.C.'s collection belonged to Confederate Colonel Gaston Meares.
Colonel Gaston Meares, about 1861
Gaston Meares was born in Wilmington. He attended West Point briefly and served in the Mexican-American War in the 1840s. Meares married Catherine (also known as Kate) Douglass DeRosset in 1850, and the couple moved to New York in 1855. They were still living in the North in 1860. By the Spring of 1861, the family was back in Wilmington, and Gaston, aged 39, was commissioned into the Field and Staff of the 3rdRegiment N.C. Troops.
Colonel Meares was killed during the battle at Malvern Hill on July 1, 1862.
In 1898, Colonel Gaston Meares' sword and hat were donated to the U.D.C by his widow. In an article entitled "The New Museum" from April 23, 1898, the
Wilmington Morning Star reported "Mrs Kate DeRosset Meares, widow of the late Col. Gaston Meares, presented to the museum her husband's military hat which he wore during the Mexican war and for some time during the civil war, before he fell, a martyr in protection of his country's honor. Accompanying the hat was also Col. Meares' sword."
According to a 17 July 1862 in the letter in the
Southern Historical Collection from
Ann ClaypoleMeares to Catherine Douglass DeRosset Meares, Gaston had both hat and sword with him when he died: "
... he was standing with his hat in his hand, & his sword under his arm, & was walking back & forth in a little prominence, from when his men had begged him to come down. & he had once done so, & taken a seat, but feeling anxious went up again. when turning his head a little back, the ball struck his him just above the left eye I think, & fractured the skull, he was immediately removed by two men & carefully attended to, no one heard him say any thing..."
Both the hat and the sword were not returned to Wilmington in 1929.
The sword came back to Wilmington in the early 1980s.
In 1979, then Museum Director Janet Seapker began to campaign to get items back. This effort yielded some results. In the early 1980s, a number of items were returned to Wilmington and the Museum, and one of those items was Gaston Meares' sword.
The hat was another story.
It was only returned to the Museum in 2010, as a part of the Museum's most recent efforts to reclaim items from the founding collection. That effort yielded Meares' hat, as well as a number of other items.
Gaston Meares' hat
This gavel was also returned in 2010. It was made out of flooring from t