All three of these valentines were sent from Joseph Forrest to Elizabeth Ehrhart during the Civil War. They became engaged in their home county of Macon, Illinois.Joseph would enlist on July 25, 1861 and become a private in Company A of the Eighth Illinois Volunteer Infantry.
They finally married when Joseph had a furlough and they could be together on August 9, 1863. Since Joseph was assigned to find deserters hiding back in Macon County, they likely spent part of their honeymoon seeking errant soldiers.
Joseph's unit was involved at Shiloh, Corinth and Vicksburg and Joseph was mustered out in December 1863. He rejoined and was wounded near Jackson, Mississippi. While he was recovering in New Orleans in 1864, their first child was born, but only survived a short time.
Joseph was mustered out at Marshal, Texas in July, 1865, but had suffered wounds that would harm his health for years. Like many other young couples, the Forrest's moved to Kansas after the War. The Forrests would have 4 more children and would live in Jewell County, where Joseph would be a Methodist minister. 1875 found them living in Minneapolis, Kansas, where Joseph died at the age of 35.
Elizabeth Forrest remained in Kansas, losing 2 more children to diphtheria in the year after Joseph's death. She applied for a veteran's pension and finished the Veteran's Homestead claim herself. She died in Kansas in 1920.