I would be fine with dying in a car crash, instantaneously - However, the way he had to go was just brutal. Paralyzed from the neck down after being the only one to be injured. Life is ****ed up man.Patton's was worse in some ways since it was a needless car accident and not an act of war.
I remember a line in the movie Patton saying something like the only honorable way for a General to die was by the last bullet in the last battle of the last war.
I think if Patton had survived into the post war years he would have been miserable. Not the best way to go though, but at least he got to be buried near his men.