Huh! And I thought "Oldest Living Confederate Widow Tells All" was a stretch! (The title character, who we meet in 1984 at age 99, was married off at about 15 - so in 1900 - by her parents to a 50-year-old man who'd been about 11 when the war started and lied about his age to enlist; by our heroine's day he's fairly well-off and the town character.) Wonderful book, by the way.
When the "last" Confederate widow Martin died several years ago, I was still teaching and talked about it in class. When I metioned the age difference, that totally grossed them out, especially the girls.
I explained how that pension was huge back in those days.
The fact that a Civil War widow was still living when the kids were connected them to the war.
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