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Originally Posted by matthew mckeon Dear Jkeith,
About the purpose of the war, I would say the war started to preserve things:
preserve slavery and preserve the Union. These ends proved mutually exclusive. |
OK, I can live with that. You are entitled to your opinion and I'm going to respect it.
In return, I'm going to ask that you consider, perhaps even acknowledge the following:
We are all products of the circumstances of our lives. We are all raised under different life circumstances; geography, demography, culture, family, friends, mentors, etc.. These infinite number of different factors shape our lives, our opinions, our loyalties, our motivations, our perceptions, and therefore our beliefs. Our beliefs are deep and personal. And, they heavily influence our interpretation of reality and "the facts".
Someone here has a signature line that says something like, "everyone is entitled to their own opinion but no one is entitled to their own facts" and I think that says a lot in one line. But is it realistic expectation?
You and I could have the same the same set of facts before us yet have diametrically opposing interpretations of those facts (i.e.: why the War was fought). There are many reasons why this could occur. For example, we might not have ALL all the facts, or we might have only the facts without benefit of the experience or the environment which surround those facts. But the core reason for the disagreement is probably going to be rooted in our intrepretation of those facts... what we BELIEVE them to mean.
So if you want to say slavery was the South's motivation and I want to say otherwise we're going to disagree. If we choose to bolster the argument or arbitrate the disagreement, who do we choose to do so? One who's beliefs are more closely aligned with mine, or yours? Futile exercise. If you or I believe something to be true, neither is likely to change the other's opinion and to infer that one or the other is wrong in their belief is only going to escalate the argument.
That being said, I'll close with this (apologizing for the run-on sentence in advance). Here in the South, we've always been and still are somewhat sensitive to insult. Any time I percieve that someone is inferring that my ancestor(s), sitting on the front porch of the plantation house listening to the darkies singing spirituals on demand, and occassionally going to the back lot to rape, whip or kill a few (just because he can), was an amoral/immoral evil that the pure and noble crusaders from the North had to come down and teach a lesson to and end the terrible scourge of slavery forever... and that was the reason that the War Between the States was fought... then I'm going to escalate the argument.