Dear Trice/Tim;
Agreed. I do think there is still a tendency of overlooking the wrenching choices that those of the South made; to remain loyal to the Union.
Oh good General George Thomas--such sadness and such price. He suffered dearly.
Vice-President Andrew Johnson; started out as a Brig. General but was a Southerner and also stubbornly kept his Congressional seat.
General John Buford and his half-brother Napoleon B. Buford remained loyal to the Union, both serving dutifully while their cousin went to the
CSA. He became a Brig. General there--his name Abraham Buford.
Even close to the President--his wife, Mary Todd Lincoln had relatives who went and served in the Confederate military. Some perished. Indeed, many houses were divided.
These Southern Generals fighting for the North; seemingly had their honor and intentions under the microscope for the entire Civil War; as did those Northerners who fought for the South. This no doubt also affected officers on down to the basic rank and file and; perhaps were subjected to treatment much different than other comrades. How many were executed out of assumptions and or suspicions?
Countless others will never be known as family history fades in time. How many of these loyal individuals lost family, fortunes, property and above all--their lives; will never be totally known.
The inclusion to these losses might be those women to whom joined under male aliases as to fight for their side. Suffering in that regard, as well as the public judgment of which would be lower than the gutter. Not seen as good soldiers. They lost also.
Southerners did often disagree. In the case of the Commonwealth of Virginia; a portion of it immediately went into secession and became West Virginia. Further; the "Loudoun Rifles" which was not in the portion of the Commonwealth of Virginia that seceded to become West Virginia, and in the northern fringes of Manassas; joined the Union and fought with Union forces. These men were the only recognized group of Virginia as a Union army group, according to Fox's Compiling of facts.
As I read and explore local history in the northeastern portion of Northern Virginia; the Confederacy abandoned her and left it to the Union to invade. Only real damage inflicted was several raids by Col. Mosby. The only real effort to retake Virginia back was made by General Longstreet, assisted by General JEB Stuart; shortly after the First Battle of Manassas/Bull Run; however, he was ordered back by Beauregard. Thus, the Defenses of Washington and Alexandria, Virginia were erected and Virginia occupied. But, all this happened after Virginia formally joined the Confederacy and had generous time to evacuate.
I agree--we, (in general) must not forget those little known aspects to which tore lives apart beyond the physical--but, the spiritual and or emotional side as well.
Just some thoughts.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
M. E. Wolf