Ms Richards, my apologies for the lack of serious replies to your query. They fail to do justice to the board.
Grant was a far better General than he was a President, after all he made Bobbi Lee surrender. As a President he has been underrated. Stephen Ambrose does a decent job on him in his
To America. I think at the heart of things he was a good man, warts and all.
I wouldn't call him a favorite Civil War General or favorite President of mine but as Generals go he was certainly one of the best in the War. His strategic thinking was something the Lee & the
CS failed to cope w/. It was after all his Vicksburg campaign that broke the back of the
CS... probably the reason Aphillbilly loves him so. He had problems like any other man, but he rose above them.
He had mixed relations w/ his subordinate officers, most who showed noted competance he advanced and championed, but for those who crossed him he neither supported nor really appreciated when they excelled. He wasn't really a great leader of men, he lacked Lee's or McClellan's magnetism. Grant never inspired nor encouraged his men to cheer him as they passed, he would rather they save their breath for the march. In his own way he loved his men, he didn't shout it he didn't care for the pomp and show or spit and polish parades; he was a fighting man. Instead he endeared himself to his men by ensuring they had the supplies they needed, to uphold their rights when captured.
His willingness to incur heavy casualties in order to grind down Leewas both a weakness and a strength in his leadership. Grant would readily admit that he was not a perfect general nor was he a perfect person.
His strengths as a General derived from his strength of character, his battlefield results that were so central to Union victory mark him as the greatest General of the Union Army and one of the Great Generals of US military history.
For further reading on him I might suggest: Cattons
Grant Moves South &
Grant Takes Command, Geoffrey Perret
Ulysses S. Grant: Triumph over Adversity and of coarse his personal memoirs.