Hello Everyone,
Thank you for your post, Traveller. It just occurred to me that I have some personal experience which, I am sure, I unconsciously bring to this. My own brother is a Junior and has two names: one that he shares with my father and which other men use, primarily; and the one which family uses, particularly the women. I made the mistake one day, in haste, of using my brother's familial name when I called his office, utterly confounding the secretary.
Redeye, my housemate just returned from business in Washington, D.C. and a visit to family in Virginia. From there, he went out to visit the Wilderness and brought me back a photo of General Longstreet! (A small thing, but a great pleasure.)
On our Miss Parker, she hung out with that good-for-nothing Algonquin Hotel crowd - lots of fun, but no real men there. I honestly do not think she knew any men of Garnett's caliber. She might have been rendered speechless, a condition no one could ever imagine Dorothy in. Garnett - indeed, any man of the Civil War era - would probably have frightened Dorothy, as she was deathly afraid of love (and for good reason). You must know what I mean.
Regarding the Shaaras' books, I think they (both father and son) are most sympathetic to Longstreet and some people may find the portrayals arguable. I enjoyed these books immensely. Even so, I like to read anything about Longstreet, even what detractors have to say, because, really, I cannot be swayed from my attraction.
It has been a cruel few weeks for me, Redeye, or I would have a "pome" ready to go here. You know I am suffering when I have no "pomes."
As for Yankee girls loving rebels, now Doug, that cannot be too hard for you to figure...

LongstreetLass