Ole,
I think with most phrases, they probably did have a meaning for a long time, but after they become popular or part of the vernacular (yes, I just used a big word, but I think that I stole it from someone who used it on this site already) they get overused and either their meaning gets warped, lost or cliched and meaningless. A few comedians chimed in on this subject:
Dom Irrerra: the phrase, "with all due respect" you know that something derogatory is about to be spoken about whoever that phrase is intended for. "with all due respect, your mother is a ______, but I'm saying it with all due respect, so it's okay."
A southern comedian who I just saw and can't remember his name...he's from South Carolina I believe. the phrase, "bless her heart" you know that something derogatory is about to be said about the subject of that sentence. "bless her heart she's such an ugly child."
And then there's the "I'd like to thank God" speak that any victorious athlete or award winning entertainer uses in his or her victory speech. Is he or she saying that God wanted you to win and everybody else to lose? How shallow. I won't even get started on that one, because I would probably bust a gasket. And yes, I just used one of those phrases. lol
But if the ends justified the means someone owes me a few more wrestling medals for high school and couple more first prize finishes in the parade my family participates in. We meant well, practiced and prepared well and spent well, but the ends certainly didn't justify them. lol
Ends justify the means...you get what you paid for...you get what you deserve I guess all mean about the same thing. But I'd certainly bet that both the winning and the losing side in any type of conflict could argue convincing that the ends did or didn't justifiy the means.
Again, just my opinion. I could be wrong. It's happened before.
Bart
